100 simple secrets of great relationships : what scientists have learned and how you can use it
One hundred simple secrets of great relationships
The Mundane Is Heroic See Possibilities Where Others See Obstacles Set Rules for Conflict Anyone Can Find a Happy Relationship It's Not How Hard You Try You Have Nothing to Envy Attitude Triumphs over Outcome Don't Be Bound by Tradition The Past Is Not the Future No One Wins the Comparison Game See the Love Around You Doing Nothing Is Rarely a Solution You'll Forget the Disagreement but Remember the Disagreeing Pursue What You Need Forever, Not What You Want Today Seek Harmony in Your Life The Relationship Test: Are You Lonely? It's the Little Things That Matter the Most A Relationship Requires Two Equals Beware of Fairy Tales Cultivate a Common Interest Treat the Disease, Not the Symptom There's No Point in Putting On a Show You Make Your Own History Maintain Your Sense of Control Money Can't Buy Love, but It Can Buy Stress There Are No Mind Readers There's No Need to Hurry Friends Speak from Experience--Their Own Drink Lesss Decide Whether You Want to Win or Be Happy A Sense of Humor Helps Think Beyond the Engagement See the Friendship in Your Relationship The Most Time Is Not the Best Time Reduce TV Time The World Will Intrude on Your Relationship Gentlemen Prefer the Same Things Ladies Prefer Love Is Blind but Life Isn't Always Balance Depends on Which Way You Lean A Relationship by Any Other Name Is Just as Important The Future Matters More than the Past You Don't Have to See Eye to Eye on Everything Be Open with Each Other Accentuate the Positive in All Aspects of Your Life It Helps to Be Friends Foundations Are Created in the Beginning Ambivalence Is a Negative Share Housework A Relationship Starts with Yourself Let Go of the Burden of Pain Develop a Healthy Calm Think of Your Own Ideal Stay Flexible Think About Potential Even in a Relationship, You Are Still an Individual Rest Up--This Is Going to Take Some Effort Like the Way You Look Don't Romanticize the Past Share the Praise and Share in the Blame You Can't Find Without Looking Meaningful Commitment Is Mutual Commitment Friendships Predict Relationships Prepare for Milestones Don't Bring Your Job Home with You We Assume Similar Preferences Don't Let Secrets Eat You Up To Find a Better Way, Look Where You've Been Money Matters Less over Time Recognize the Value of Shared Values Understand What You're Looking For Never Let Faults Stand for the Whole You'll Need Some Relationship Friends Don't Wait to Start Moving in the Right Direction Music Can Bring Us Together Define What You Need Show You Care, Even When It's Hard To Make Your Decisions for Positive Reasons A Relationship Is Built on a Foundation of Support The Pieces of Your Life Must Fit Together Master Your Fears We Are All Much More Alike than Different Limit Your Interest in the Past Get Your Reality from Reality You Are Never Too Old to Find Love We Look Inward to See How People Feel About Us Be Willing to Evolve Connect, See You're Capable, and Know You Count Reliability Counts a Lot You Are Complete by Yourself Intensity Fades Beware Second Opinions Have Faith but Don't Forget Reality Pay Attention Nice People Don't Finish Last Relationships Are like Modern Art It's Not Easy, Even if It Looks It Most People Are Looking for Experienced Rookies It's for You--or It Isn't See the Horizon, Watch Your Step The Search for Perfection Is Endless
